Osho on Relationships

Osho – Problem with Relationship is that Relationship reflects you

Osho on problem in relationships

[A sannyasin says he has always had trouble with relationships, including the present one with his girlfriend.] Osho – Mm, mm. A relationship is always a problem because the other becomes the mirror and the presence of the other help you to see your own face in many ways. And the same happens to the [...]

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Osho – Love can play many games, but one day or other all games are finished

Osho on Love Games

[The man says he is going back to the West and the girlfriend will stay in Poona.] Osho – That’s good. So make it in that way… make arrangements in that way. You go, mm? but remain true – if any moment you feel you need [her], just give her a telegram; she will wait. [...]

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Osho – A Relationship can never be without difficulties and if there is Love

Osho on Love Relationship

[A visitor says she doesn’t want to take sannyas because to wear orange and mala will be difficult at home. Then asks about her boyfriend, who is more spiritual and ascetic than her, which causes difficulties.] Osho – A relationship can never be without difficulties and if there is love, then there are more difficulties. [...]

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Osho – It is very easy to think about Love. It is very difficult to Love

[ A sannyasin says: When I am by myself I feel I can let go in some ways and love people but assoon as I come into their presence, the shutters go up.] Osho – Mm… mm. It is difficult to love real people because a real person is not going to fulfil yourexpectations. He [...]

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Osho on Relationship, Real Relationship happens when Ego Drops

Osho on Relationship, Real Relationship

Question – What happens in and with the relationship between two partners, If their Ego drop? Osho – Then relationship happens. Before that it is just an empty name. Relationship cannot happen before the egos are gone. You only believe that it is a relationship. It is a conflict, it is enmity, it is jealousy, [...]

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Osho – My wife is utterly faithful to me, but still doubt goes on lingering

Osho on Faith in Partner

Question – Osho, I know for sure that my wife is utterly faithful to me, but still doubt goes on lingering somewhere inside me. What should I do to get rid of the doubt? Osho – Avinash,IN THE first place, why should you ask that she should be faithful to you? It is from there [...]

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Osho on How to Transcend Biology, Physiology

Osho on How to Transcend Biology

Osho – Man and woman are intimate enemies – enemies and yet intimate. If your woman is with you then you start feeling: how to be alone? When you are alone, after a few days you start a great thirst and hunger for your woman – how to be with her? If you are alone, appetite [...]

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Osho on Excitement, True Love and Joy in Relationship

Osho on Excitement and True Love

[A sannyasin, returning to the West, says that the joy and fun has gone out of his relationship with his girlfriend, though the love is still there.] Osho – There is some misunderstanding in your mind. The joy is not gone, joy has never been there – it was something else. It is excitement that [...]

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Osho – It is Hard for me to surrender to a Man

Osho on Surrendering to a Man

Question : Beloved Osho, Why is it hard for me to Surrender to a Man? Osho : Then don’t surrender. Why unnecessarily create trouble for yourself? Who is telling you to surrender to a man in the first place? Don’t surrender. Why do you start taking unnecessary troubles on your head? If you don’t feel [...]

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Osho on Trusting oneself and Stop doing Imitation

Osho on Trusting oneself

Osho : It is better to be ignorant; at least the ignorance is yours. It is authentic, it is real, sincere and honest! Don’t go on with borrowed knowledge. Otherwise you will forget that you are ignorant, and you will remain ignorant. This sutra says ”… MOTHER PARTICULAR KNOWINGS.” Always try to know something in [...]

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Osho on Relationship, Loving Oneself and Loving Others

Osho on Relationship Loving Oneself

Osho : You meet people of the same plane. So the first thing to remember is: a relationship is bound to be bitter if it has grown out of unhappiness. First be happy, be joyful, be celebrating, and then you will find some other soul celebrating and there will be a meeting of two dancing [...]

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Osho on Sex outside Marriage

Osho on Sex outside Marriage

Question – What is your attitude toward Sex, and Sex outside of marriage? Osho – Sex is very important because sex is the root of life. You are born out of sex, your every cell in the body is a sex cell. Sex cannot be denied and any society that denies sex becomes suicidal. Then [...]

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