Osho on Spontaneous action and Immaturity
Question : You tell me to follow my feelings, and when i finally dare to and am feeling much freer…
Osho – To relate is Insecure and Relationship is a Security
Question – Is relationship there because love is not? Osho – Mukti Gandha, yes. Love is not a relationship. Love…
Osho on Failure and Failing Attitude, Osho on Negative Trips
[A sannyasin says that he feels a failure ‘cos he hasn’t got ‘a nice girl’.] Osho – There is no…
Osho on reverence and respect for Parents, Relationship between parents and children
[A sannyasin’s father has died after a long illness and she says: I have to go somehow more to be…
Osho – you need the mirror of relationship to see your being
Osho – Just as you need a mirror to see your face so you need the mirror of relationship to…
Osho – Seekers have always moved into solitary existence
Osho – It has been happening always, that a Buddha moves to the mountains, a Jesus moves to the mountains,…
Osho – Miserable people are intrinsically incapable of love, of friendship
Osho – The miserable person can pretend to be a friend but in fact he cannot be. Friendliness is a…
Osho – If you are really into a relationship it will shatter you
Osho – A relationship is always a problem because the other becomes the mirror and the presence of the other…
Osho – Why it is so difficult for Sannyasins to have deep relationships with Non-Sannyasins
Question – Beloved Osho, Why it is so difficult for Sannyasins to have deep relationships with Non-Sannyasins? Osho – It…
Osho – Should one first come to terms with his own loneliness before entering into Relationship
First become alone. First start enjoying yourself. First love yourself. First become so authentically happy that if nobody comes it…
Osho – You can relate, but there is no need to create any bondage
Osho – Neeto, you ask me: WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LONGING FOR THE DIVINE AND LOVING ANOTHER? There is…
Osho – Don’t waste your time in trying to dominate others
Osho – Buddha says: MASTER YOURSELF…. If you are at all interested in mastery — and who is not interested?…
Osho – Whenever you want to go into a Relationship a part of your mind always wants to avoid it
[Another sannyasin says that she tends to avoid the very people with whom she would like arelationship. She wonders if…
Osho – The day you really fall deeply in love all your loves of the past will be involved in it
[A sannyasin says she feels something is wrong in the way she relates. She doesn’t commit herself easily but holds…
Osho – Anger is relevant when you are in love, anger is allowed when you are in love
[A visitor says she has been with her husband for fifteen years and has just discovered she doesn’t love him,…
Osho – A togetherness is a Sacred Commitment. It is a great Involvement
[A sannyasin who had recently left hospital after an attack of typhoid fever, said that she was feeling paranoid and…
Osho – Love has to be taken beyond Jealousy. Jealousy has to be dropped
[At a previous darshan (see ’The Passion For The Impossible’, September 1 st), Osho had advised a couple to work…
Osho – You may not get something that you want, but you always get that which you Need
[A sannyasin says: I see my craving and trying to fill up my spaces with other people. The love between…
Osho – When people are in love they avoid many things which look Ugly
[A sannyasin says: I wrote you a letter about having recently finished a relationship with somebody, and since then I’ve…
Osho – We are taught a very repressive attitude, we are taught to repress the Negative.
[A sannyasin couple with two children ask for help with their relationship because the man loves the woman but she…
Osho – Lovers always become friends in the end
[Osho asks a sannyasin about her relationship and she replies: Well, I feel good, and it’s the nicest thing that…
Osho – When you love a person you have to tell him everything
[A group member says she has difficulty surrendering in the relationship with her boyfriend] Osho – Tell him everything! ……