Osho on Spontaneous action and Immaturity
Question : You tell me to follow my feelings, and when i finally dare to and am feeling much freer and simpler and happier, you say i am immature. What…
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Question : You tell me to follow my feelings, and when i finally dare to and am feeling much freer and simpler and happier, you say i am immature. What…
Question – Is relationship there because love is not? Osho – Mukti Gandha, yes. Love is not a relationship. Love relates, but it is not a relationship. A relationship is…
[A sannyasin says that he feels a failure ‘cos he hasn’t got ‘a nice girl’.] Osho – There is no problem as far as your energy is concerned — the…
[A sannyasin’s father has died after a long illness and she says: I have to go somehow more to be with my mother, to finish something there. There is something…
Osho – Just as you need a mirror to see your face so you need the mirror of relationship to see your being. Love functions as a mirror, it shows…
Osho – It has been happening always, that a Buddha moves to the mountains, a Jesus moves to the mountains, a Mahavira goes into the mountains. Why do they move…
Osho – The miserable person can pretend to be a friend but in fact he cannot be. Friendliness is a luxury. It is overflowing energy — so much energy that…
Osho – A relationship is always a problem because the other becomes the mirror and the presence of the other help you to see your own face in many ways.…
Question – Beloved Osho, Why it is so difficult for Sannyasins to have deep relationships with Non-Sannyasins? Osho – It is natural. To be a sannyasin means you are deprogrammed.…
First become alone. First start enjoying yourself. First love yourself. First become so authentically happy that if nobody comes it doesn't matter; you are full, overflowing. If nobody knocks at…
Osho – Neeto, you ask me: WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LONGING FOR THE DIVINE AND LOVING ANOTHER? There is no difference at all – longing is longing. Then what…
Osho – Buddha says: MASTER YOURSELF…. If you are at all interested in mastery — and who is not interested? — then become interested in self-mastery. Don’t waste your time…
[Another sannyasin says that she tends to avoid the very people with whom she would like arelationship. She wonders if leaving Poona is not an attempt to avoid Osho. She…
[A sannyasin says she feels something is wrong in the way she relates. She doesn’t commit herself easily but holds back, feeling that maybe it isn’t quite right for her.…
[A visitor says she has been with her husband for fifteen years and has just discovered she doesn’t love him, but there are three children – what to do?] Osho…
[A sannyasin who had recently left hospital after an attack of typhoid fever, said that she was feeling paranoid and that her partner did not love her. Osho said it…
[At a previous darshan (see ’The Passion For The Impossible’, September 1 st), Osho had advised a couple to work on their relationship. The woman was jealous about the man…
[A sannyasin says: I see my craving and trying to fill up my spaces with other people. The love between Somendra and me is so beautiful. The pain is not…
[A sannyasin says: I wrote you a letter about having recently finished a relationship with somebody, and since then I’ve been feeling very negative towards him. I don’t understand why…
[A sannyasin couple with two children ask for help with their relationship because the man loves the woman but she feels so repressed she cannot give much love to her…
[Osho asks a sannyasin about her relationship and she replies: Well, I feel good, and it’s the nicest thing that has happened to me for a very long time. But…
[A group member says she has difficulty surrendering in the relationship with her boyfriend] Osho – Tell him everything! … And tell him this also, that you are feeling difficulty…