Osho – A life becomes really alive only when love blossoms, otherwise it is a tree with no flowers, it is a bird who is dumb, cannot sing, or a bird without wings. A life without love is crippled inwardly, paralysed, from the outside everything will be as it should be but from the inside something is missing — something which makes everything valuable, something without which it is all dark.
Love is the lamp of the interior world, the light of the within. But love brings many problems, sometimes so big that it seems safer to avoid it. It brings anxiety, conflict, fear, bondage. It is absolutely needed. The person who avoids it is committing suicide, but the people who live calculatedly, whose lifestyle is rooted in arithmetic, whose vision is not more than the material, the worldly, the outside, whose vision consists only of the miserable, the logical — they are bound to decide against love. They will call love madness … And they are not absolutely wrong either.
They are right because love brings so many problems that life becomes a turmoil, an insanity. One loses all balance and then to get out of it is very difficult — one thing leads to another, one problem to many other problems. Hence the cautious person decides against love, but then he has decided against life itself. Then he is living meaninglessly. Then he simply vegetates and calls it life. He drags and he feels continuously that there is no dance, no significance, but he consoles himself ‘It is so because life itself is meaningless — what can I do?’
That’s what Jean-Paul Sartre and other existentialists say: life itself is meaningless, it is not our fault! Life is absurd, it is not our fault. But they are utterly wrong! Life is not absurd, life is not meaningless, but meaning comes through love. Life is only an opportunity to grow into love. Love brings problems — hence all the religions of the world have decided against love. These religions have been invented by very Jewish people — calculating, businesslike.
As far as I can see all the religions have been founded by Jews! (laughter) They may be known or hidden — that’s another thing — but it is a Jewish conspiracy, because they all live with such calculation. The monastery is nothing but an escape from love. Love can become without any problems if one more element is added to it — that is awareness. Unconscious love creates problems. In fact it is not love that creates problems, that is a misunderstanding. It is the unconsciousness in it which creates problems.
Rightly analysed one can see clearly from where the problems come. They don’t come from love itself, they come from unconciousness. It’s unconsciousness that creates jealousy, that creates possessiveness, that creates domination, that fear, that creates anxiety about the future, that creates suspicion, doubt. It is unconsciousness that brings anger, hatred, conflict — it is not love at all. But we are such a mixture that unless you are very aware you will not be able to separate them.
The moment you become alert they can be separated. And once you are able to separate what love is and what unconsciousness is, once you are conscious of your unconsciousness it starts disappearing, because that is the only way to make it evaporate. To be conscious of unconsciousness simply means that consciousness cannot allow unconsciousness to exist any more.
It is like bringing light into a dark room; the moment the light is inside the room the darkness disappears. Yes, when you are bringing the lamp and the room is still far away you can see that it is dark. The closer you come the more you can see that it is dark. but the moment you enter into the room the darkness disappears.
In a Sufi parable, a mystic asked one of his disciples, ‘Go out and see whether the sun has risen yet or not!’ It is very early, the last phase of the night, and the disciple says, ‘There is no need to go. I can see from the windows it is very dark and the sun has not risen yet.’ But the master says, ‘Then you take a lamp with you and go and look for the sun — whether it has arisen yet or not. If it is dark then take a lamp.’
The disciple feels very puzzled. The master looks crazy, but he is giving an indication to the disciple. He is not talking about the outside world, he is talking about the inside world. He is saying, ‘If it is dark then take the lamp and look, whether it is really dark or not. And the moment you take the lamp it is no more dark.’
The same happens when you become aware. The first thing is that unconsciousness and love are separated.When all the misery that has remained associated with love is no more associated with love. Love becomes purified, a fragrance, and the unconscious starts disappearing because you start becoming more and more conscious of it.
This is the whole process of sannyas. Only two things to be remembered, love and awareness. Love plus awareness is equal to sannyas.
Source – Osho Book “The Old Pond… Plop”